Well as long as neither one of you have filed for divorce neither one of you have custody of the children. You need to file for divorce and ask for sole custody and then the court will set visitations for the father and also order him to pay child support. You can tell the judge about your mother and how you have to go back home and ask him to stipulate that you can go so your ex can't stop you. If you start signing agreements with him on your own then you need to know that it will not be legal. If you leave and let him keep the child or children even with a statement he can go down and file for sole custody and get it. So many promblems acure when couples try doing this on their own and it gets way out of hand for your sake do it though the court.



