If you ahve joint custody of your child you do have a say in her taking the children out of state. You would need to file a motion with the court asking that she bring the children back. She would have to be served and appeal in court and would be in contemp if she did not appeal that would hurt her because if she does not abide by the court rulings she could end up losing custody all together. The only promblem with this is if she does ignore all this and not appeal they would not issue an awarout of state but if she ever came back in the states they would grab her. So you need to think about if this is what you want to do. This is always hard on two parents when they want to got their own way. I know how you must feel you might also just try talking with her and see if she would consider moving back for the childrens sake.



