First, you can file a court order that will not allow her to take your son. The courts view you both equally as parents and you both have a right to have your son. With a job and a place to live with electricity and other things, you're actually in a better position to control the matter. You have just as many rights to your son as she has and don't let anyone tell you something else. You should probably contact your local family support agency run by the county in which you live to start the process.
Good luck.


