Well if there has not been parenty to prove he is the father yet,then you could go. The most that would happen would be that if he chose to file for visitaions then he may be allowed them,but he would first have to establish parenty. He would probary have to wait until you came back to the states before taking you to court. You might want to tell him your going to provide a better life for the baby and see if he would just agree. If he would just have him sign a statement that he was made aware that you were moving due to a job. If you have never filed for sole custody though the court then at this time meither one of you have custody. It is always best to work with the father.



