She does not have the right to take the children out of state without your premmision. You said there was child support ordered for you to pay did you also have a visitation in order? If so is it joint custody or does she have sole custody. You can do one of two things if there is no custody order though the court you can file for custody or joint custody, either way you have legal rights concerning the children, if there is a order then you need to file a motion to modifly the orignal order asking the judge to not allow her to move the kids out of state. But one thing you can be sure of and that is there is no legal way she can just change the kids name. Tell the judge what she is doing and if she calls record the conversation or have an answering machine where she can leave these threating messages to use it court.



