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Submitted 349 days ago...

1ProudMom

1ProudMom

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Revoke child visitation/ adoption

I have a 6 y/o daughter whose biological father is in prison for the 2nd time, during her life for armed robbery ,drugs-(buying & selling),amonst other things, he is very unfit .
He started seeing her when he first got out of prison the first time to show his multiple girlfriends "he had changed while locked up. My boyfriend at the time -husband now) made every possible way to keep contact with her. when he was out of prison before, I offered to buy him stamps for letters cards etc, he only wanted $ -no stamps, we had the long distance phone service with all extras added to our phone so he could call-even collect, when he had no place to go we offered to let him come up to our house to visit, which he also didn't want to do, I was also very flexable with visits,I even offered for him to come and see her more because she was young enough that she could "get used to him.No matter what we did nothing worked no matter how much I tried to corperate. And know he gets out in April and has been sending all types of letters home saying that he WILL see me and my daughter then.And his sister said that she had to WARN me so I am taking it we are being threatened.
Now that I am married and have an 18 month old with him, he also would like to addopt my 6 year old, does anyone know if we have any chance of getting his rights revoked and my new husband-the man she has called daddy since 18 months,adopt her?
or could you tell me what elseI need to do so? I am getting

 
 
 
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Submitted 147 days ago...

malachi

malachi

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I think you should be able to revoke his rights. Children aren't asked to be born and when a man deals with his kids on his time it hurts the kids. I am a mother with the same problem and I feel as though I'm all they have anyways so I want to revoke their fathers rights.

 

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Submitted 145 days ago...

tomturkey

tomturkey

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Well as far as worring about him when he gets out he is not going to be able to get custody of your daughter. He may try to see her and that would be up to you. However as for your husband now being able to adopt the child that cannot happen without the consent of the father. If he gets out depending on what he is in for this second time you might be able to take away his visitations or ask the court for supervised visits. When he gets out he will have to start paying child support. You might be able to talk him into signing the papers to allow your husband to adopt his child. That would be one way he could get out of child support.

 
 

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