Well if your ex has custody of the children it is not easy to take them away from her unless you have Cps involved showing that she is an unfit mother. You can always file for custody but you will need to have some proof that the mother has done something that the court would considered harmfull. If she is trying to get on disabitily does not mean she can't care for the children. I would watch the children more closely and take it from there. If you have concerns about their well being you will need to call COS and have the home checked out. You can also talk to her and see if she is willing to let you take the children for awhile until she gets help.



