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boricua3

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Unwanted baby !!!

My daughter was living with this guy and then they decided to go their own separate way. After three wks of coming back home my daughter found out she was pregnant. She called and gave him the news but, since he had another girl, he said he didn't want 'NOTHING' to do with her and 'THAT BABY'. Thru out her pregnancy she received comments on the myspace web from his g/f and himself that she was having an unwanted baby, if abortion was an option, she was daddy f*** up, that if by DNA it was determined it was his all he was gonna be was a father/donor but never a 'DADDY'. His sister even said it couldn't be his cause she was ugly.
Since she filed for child support we have had nothing but harassment coming from them. Now he even talks about filing for joint custody. I fear for my granddaughters safety knowing that they have never wanted her, especially his g/f, which he plans to marry and have since had another baby. We have emails were he states all of the above plus. Could my daughter be able to use those emails against him in court??

 
 
 
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Submitted 330 days ago...

sidelko

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I'm not sure if the emails could be used in court. That would be a question for your lawyer if you don't already have one.

So i take it your grand daughters baby was already born? was the the father put on the birth certificate?

If he was, then she could go after him for child support since it was his baby, even if you need to have him do a DNA test prove it. but also yes, he could also file for joint custody of the child. unless maybe she now lives to far away to really make that happen.

 

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Submitted 330 days ago...

Jodi-Mesa

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Oh that is so sad! Poor little girl. I can't imagine growing up as the unwanted baby, it's a good thing you have been so supportive of your daughter. In a custody case, YES those emails should be used to show his character and why he should not have visitation unless he goes to great lengths to prove that he can be a good father (maybe in 10 years). Save all of those emails and write down everything that him and his girlfriend say. Good luck and go give your granddaughter a hug! It's a good thing she has you!

 

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Submitted 329 days ago...

boricua3

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To sideIko. Yes. No, he had to sign in order for it to be done. Paternity still has to be establish, cause he claims its not his. Can he still file for joint custody after him and his g/f have made claims/statements that he don't wanna be a part of her life?? We have notes to prove it.

 

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Submitted 329 days ago...

boricua3

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To Jodi-Mesa, Thanks. Yes,,,i give my grandbaby a HUG everyday,,,,she is the light of my life. I can't seem to understand why some ppl would want to hurt such a beautiful blessing. And just to think the g/f went as far as calling the cops and saying my grandbaby was being mistreated. GOD bless her for she don't know what she is doing.

 

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Submitted 329 days ago...

sidelko

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If he signed something to the effect of him giving up all legal rights to the child, then he probably won't ever have to pay child support or anything like that.

 

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Submitted 329 days ago...

boricua3

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Not true. There is a law in my state that even if he signs over parental rights he still has to pay child support. This i know cause i received the info from child protective services.

 
 

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