Your right it is the oblagation is for the parent that has the visitations to be responiable to pick the children up and bring them back if they refuse then you don't have to take them. If that causes a big promblem i would just file a motion with the court to modifly the origanal order putting in a stimpulation stating the parent has to be responiable to pick up the children and take them back. As for her not letting the grandmother pick them up. There is no reason why your parents should not be able to pick the children up she is just playing hard ball. But legally she only has to release them to you.



