When exactly may you have your children around a non-relative of the opposite sex?

Like wether or not it is ok to take your daughter with you to visit your girlfriend, or have your girlfriend over to your home when your daughter is there? Are you divorced, or just serperated still?

Been seperated for over three years. yes just to take her around

Been seperated for over three years. yes just to take her around

I am unaware of any statute that would not allow you to take your child around the oppisite sex...unless it is ordered in the custody order, you can take your child with you where ever you go-even if thats to your girlfriends house for overnight visitis as long as there was no inapporpriate behavior taking place in front of your child...I live in Illinois, not North Carolina, so I could be wrong. Check with an attorney, but to me, it sounds as if your ex just doesn't want your child to meet your girlfriend due to jealousy issues....because her grandfather, uncles, friends, etc..are members of the opposite sex as well...

I am unaware of any statute that would not allow you to take your child around the oppisite gender...unless it is stated in the visitation order, you can take your child with you where ever you go-even if thats to your girlfriends house for overnight visitis as long as there was no inapporpriate behavior taking place in front of your child...I live in Illinois, not North Carolina, so I could be wrong. Check with an attorney, but to me, it sounds as if your ex just doesn't want your child to meet your girlfriend due to jealousy issues....because her grandfather, uncles, friends, etc..are members of the opposite gender as well...

I do not know of any law, but my ex & I decided on our own, that we would not introduce kids to a new "friend" til we had dated that friend for at least 4 months.

My girlfriend and i have been together for almost four been seperated the same thanks for the input everyone

I, too, have never heard of a time frame, but I agree with the 4 mo rule. I know I waited that long cuz I didnot want kids confused, my ex had dif girl every month, I finally asked him if he could wait to intro the kids to girl friends , cuz they would come home & tell me about dif girls, I knew I could not make him, but we got along so well I knew I could ask, he agreed, had not thought of the kids' thoughts.