Well it sounds like your drive is there, just that you have some negative feelings towards your hubby, which is probably why you don't get aroused with him. I know you said that you have talked to him. But have you told him that you are not satisfied? And that you get turned on with this other guy? I know that may sound like a scary thing to do, but it might be a wake up call for him. If that doesn't make him change his ways, than maybe you too should take a break. Also, when you have sex, try to stop him when he is about to cum. Change positions, or go down south. This will help stave off ejaculation. Just pay attention so you can catch it in time. He will start to last longer over time. As far as getting your drive back, exercise does help, but also just accepting yourself. I also recommend watching some porn yourself. Not the highly produced ones, but some amateur stuff which is all over the net. I found that when I started watching that stuff, I became more comfortable with body and my sexuality. You will see that you don't have to be thin to have great sex. Some of my favorite girls in the industry are curvy.
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Getting sex drive back
Hello I have been through so much pain in past 2 years from a car accident. I have lost my total sex drive towards my husband but get aroused with another guy. M y husband doesnt turn me on at all he sucks in bed and only lasts 2 minutes if that. He wont listen when I tell him what I like and how to do it. He acts very imature and like a teenagee when it comes to sex. He wants to cum and doesnt care if I do. and all he wants to look at is porn and me in nightys and stuff like that. I am a big woman and the ones he wants me in he thinks i will look like the models in them and i wont but he wants me skinny which im working on but takes time. What can i do to 1. get my sex drive back and 2. make him last longer and be more adult with sex and caring?
Well I have told him he dont satisfy me and that he dont turn me on. I do watch porn all the time. And I can neever tell when hes gonna cum till hes cumming. He makes no emotions or nothing doesnt jerk forward keeps at the same rythym .
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