You can get money from your 401 in a few ways. You can get a disbursment but it costs penalties and major taxes. Sometimes it is as much as 2000-3000 dollars.
You can inquire with your work and see if they offer 401 loans. You won't inur taxes and penalties and you would be paying yourself the interest.
There is one more option. Have you thought about refinancing your house. There many options that would be beneficial to this case. If you take the payment out of your 401, and catch up on your mortgage, you will eventually be in the same boat that you are now.
Refinancing offers options that would permantatly lower your house payment


