Well, your brain, your heart and your common sense are in the right place. You are correct in concluding you should back your husband. You will probably be able to deal with this better if you just talk to your husband (non-accusatory) to try and understand why the argument happened in the first place. That's all you really need is a personal understanding. Talking to your son probably won't help anything at all. Just remember while you're trying to deal with this . . . you have to live with your husband for the rest of your life; not your son.

