Visitation

If he has stopped paying child support and refuses to pay, and its a court oredered payment then he is in violation of it. I would contact the Legal Office or JAG office on the post and ask them for help. Be sure to bring the court order that states he pays and how much. They can take it out of his paycheck every pay day. Also if he is active duty, then he may be required to keep the children on DEERS so they can get benefits on post. They can also go after his savings, and tax returns to pay his support payments.

As far as visitation, you will need to contact your lawyer or maybe Child Protective Angecy or Support to see what has to be done. But you will probably have to prove it will be harmful to the children. May need to adjust it to once a month and meet him half way, so the travel wont be as much. But that will eed to be worked out bewteen you both or a lawyer.

This answer was edited by USAFRET91 76 days ago.

Reason: added comments

Since this a 2 month old plus question, it would interesting to see what has transpired. But c ouple of issues are readily apparent
a service member canot avoid CS ( few can , but they are eaily subject to garnishment, in addition the service expects their memebrs to honor court orders)
I can only guess why he let that lapse, knowing he would be -re-upping, and further, thay may not take him back if they find he is in contempt of court.

As far as your parenting plan is concerned, every one will present the evidence, but teh bottom line is that regardless whether he is paying or not, he evidenlty wants to parent ( as you stated) and to put activities above a parental visit would not be compelling in my courtroom. Putting girl scouts or littleleague above a parent spending time would raise my eyebrows and make me question any parents judgment of their priorities.
You asked , I told. I wonder what your court did.