Divorce Question

Were you two still together as a couple when she withdrew this money?

I don't think that her living with a guy would change the alimony payments. unless it is written into the agreement it usually ends when she gets married.

That money has nothing to do with anything because it happened during the marriage. The divorce explains what happens after the marriage.

As for alimony it is money so either or one the sposes live an comparable life style as the marriage. Why does your atty. beat you up? If your coming to a website to get answers instead of your atty.. i really think you should get a new attn. Sounds like your attn. is not representing you well.

You say your attorney did not acknowledge the money out of account and her attorney also ignored the issue....YOU NEED to get another opinion from another attorney. Do not go to court under this circumstance. Sounds strange to me just like it did to you .....trust your feelings and instincts on things, go with your feelings. Something wrong? Move on it......

You have an issue and your representation needs to address this as you want......right? Why is it being ignored.....talk to someone outside this lawyers firm, consider someone else to represent what it is you want .....that is what you hire them for....for you. For you....!

You hire the attorney. He is to represent you. Don't let him them beat you up on anything. You deserve fair and honest representation in your case. Find a lawyer you can trust....

First no the issue of the mans incom has nothing to do with your exs. They are not married and even were they it would not be deemed as an incom for child support . The money that your wife took out of the account cannot be considered in the child support order. Since you have addmitted to allowing her to do so then your not going to be able to get it back. However if you have an agreement in writing that you let her barrow it then you would have a case. If you were married at the time she is entitled to half of the money anyways.

You would have to address question 1 and 2 to the courts as far as if they count towards child support.

$35,000 in one year sounds a bit excessive.

you could try and agrue that it is over what she needs, but you still probably have to pay something