So there is no record of her filing for the divorce? did you sign anything to end the marriage?
There has got to be some way to find out, if you are actually still married, and there has to be a process to file for divorce without her being present to end the marriage if you are still legally married the Mexican woman.
If you think about it. People could just pick up and leave a marriage at any time. there has to be a way for the one that was left to end the marriage on his own.
Hope that helps. Good luck with it it and congrats on the new wife.



