Once you accept responsibility through payment child support, you are bound as the responsible parent, even if the child is not biologically yours. If you would have questioned the fact during the original court process and requested a paternity test - you could have prevented the action and subsequent requirement upon you to pay child support. But because you did not, the judge is correct - in it's to late now. The best you can do, is motion the court to modify child support on grounds that the child is not yours. Possibly they would take into account your exs previous statement or allow a DNA test - but most courts uphold previous orders after years of acceptance.

