I would not agree to lowing his child support. Even if he is not paying you can be sure he will always be in the rears and you will get the money one way or another. If he is not paying he can lose his drivers licence if he has one. The child support can also take his incom taxes every year until he has caught up with his payments. The court does not care about his not working,they'll tell him to get a job. I would report that he is working under the table if you know who the person or company is that is paying him. It is illegal to pay anyone under the table. He can get in trouble with the IRS and the company to. He does not have to know you reported it but you have a family to support. I am surprized that child support would feel sorry for him but even if they do it is not up to them to decide what you should or shouldn't do. that is for the courts to decide. I would take him back to court would be my first step.


