If he deposits in your account; generally I think to direct deposit the earner has to be on the account; if you do that , then they can take you money out of the account also.
He can't escape this, even if he quits direct deposit, then they will garnish right at the workplace.
I am sorry to be no help; many "payors" find themselves in this position if they get in arrears; many have to take a second job to make ends meet.



