About men being addicted to porn

Does his wife care?

Well I think it's perfectly nature for men to look at porn. They use visuals to get aroused. He may be alittle obsessive about it but perhaps he's not getting enough spice in his marriage.

Has she ever thought about watching some porn with him and then acting it out? Instead of placing blame on him maybe she needs to figure out why he is watching so much.

With that said. I think men will always look at porn to some extent. I'm guessing your friend came to you about her problem. Give her advice but never blame him or get in the middle of their relationship.

My thoughts on Porn in a relationship, is that is healthy. there is nothing inherently wrong in watching or viewing porn.

The only time porn really becomes an issue is if the porn replaces sex or time with the the partner.

Ok, yes his wife cares, and yes she came to me about the problem,she says he would rather look at porn then do anything with her. She said she tries and gets nothing form him. He lies to her about the porn says he not looking at it. He broke up with her about months ago and she moved out got her own place. She lived by herself with their kids for about 2 months and he told her he wanted her back. She moved back in and things were good for about the first month and now he is doing this. She has watched it with him and still nothing. I have my own problems with the (porn/insecurity thing) so I'm not the person to give her advice on the matter, that's why we are asking on here.

LOL! this is not advice, just stupid story about son, I always knew I would find porn in their room, (had 4 boys), I found penthouse, went to the store & bought a playgirl, & inserted it into cover. It was a month before they said anything, & we all laughed, of course I did tell them no porn in my house!

You still have not answered question, does his wife care?
Just becuz you don't approve, does not mean she does not approve.

Yes his wife cares.

He could have a form of sex addiction. If it's taking over other areas of his life. If this is the case he isn't going to stop just because she does not approve. He has to want to get help for this addiction. No one can help someone who is unwilling to help themselves.

This answer was edited by Skoolie 668 days ago.

Reason: more info

Our country is just now recognizing this as a true addiction, many psychologists compare it to heroine addiction. There is help if your friends husband is willing to seek it.

http://www.helpforguys.com/porn_addiction_help.html

http://www.familydynamics.net/pornaddictionhelp.htm

http://www.setfreeporn.com/

Castrate him.... Thats my plan....