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davis27

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At what age do I start to talk to my daughter about sex ?

I have a 5 year old and I am wondering what is this the right age to talk to her about sex or should I wait till she is older? I really want to get this subject out so she will feel comfortable about her body and that she does not learn this from someone else.

 
 
 
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Submitted 345 days ago...

Ruchele

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A book like Human Body (Curious Kids Guides) is as far as I would recommend going at this age.

http://www.powells.com/biblio/2-0753454726-0?&PID=24019

 

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Submitted 345 days ago...

Skoolie

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I think being open from the get go is a little better. If she has questions now be honest and natural about them.

I think it's a good idea to have a good long talk with her at age 9, 10 or 11, before she gets her period. You can include everything together. Puberty, sex, etc.

Let her know you are open to questions she may have and that she can come to you anytime.

 

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Submitted 345 days ago...

Missy1990

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I personaly think that the right age is when you think it is right to talk to her. your child will listen. but dont push them with it. In this day and age every grade level endes up learning about sex edu. But dont pressure the child at a time they dont think they are ready to even listen. Every young girl has something that is uncomfortable in her body, wheather or not you talk to her. You have to also let her know you are there when she needs to take to you about anything that is happening, i know i would be no where without my mom being there.

 

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davis27

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WELL I concider this answer to my Q a very postive one and she will let me know when she is ready. Thanks

 

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Submitted 344 days ago...

sammie204

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Well my mom told me when i got my first real good serice boyfriend so maybe about 10-?

 

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Submitted 171 days ago...

tomturkey

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Five years old is far to young she will not be able to understand what your trying to tell her. Usally about the time when your daughter starts to get her period you can explain it to her at the same time your explaining about why she has periods. In Middle school some schools show movies on sex education but they have to have your written cosent to allow your child to watch the movies. Kids learn quicker than we want them though other children but believe me its not 5. Why the hurry to get it over with.

 

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Upload992

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AS SOON AS POSSIBLE THERE ARE MANY AGE APPROPRIATE WAYS TO INTRODUCE THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEn boys and girls , good touch vs bad touch , basically you can tell by the childs reaction to your way of speaking. My two boys by the age of 8 knew about pedophiles, rape, pregnancy, condoms , aids and more . just talk to them all the time , watch the news things will come up, read the paper together , just talk to your daughter every chance they get the better educated they are the better they are prepared to face the world.

 
 

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