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Bilogical Father

I dont know how to bring info to real father after 11 years,what to say or how.
I haven't talked to him sense the day I found out I was pregnant.That alone says he wanted only what he got and gone.I told him I was pregnant and he asked if it was his I said NO...Never to this day has he even tried contacting me,and now I have his Information and can't seem to bring myself to e-mailing him and telling the truth.What or How do I do this?
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Submitted 255 days ago...

momzrock2

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11 years is alot of time to grow up! Just let him know you were young and immature and that you thought it was something that he didnt want in his life at that time, so you decided to tell him it was not his child. Now that you are more mature and grown you see the wrong in things you did in the past and you are now trying to "right" them. He may be mad or upset to of gone 11 yrs without knowing he was a father, or he might still not care if he's a dad but either way, just let him know this is something you needed to do, and your child has missed out on who knows what..maybe good maybe bad, you cant get it back now..so be careful this does no harm to your child..sometimes things ARE better left unsaid.

 

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Thank U!!!!

 
 

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