11 years is alot of time to grow up! Just let him know you were young and immature and that you thought it was something that he didnt want in his life at that time, so you decided to tell him it was not his child. Now that you are more mature and grown you see the wrong in things you did in the past and you are now trying to "right" them. He may be mad or upset to of gone 11 yrs without knowing he was a father, or he might still not care if he's a dad but either way, just let him know this is something you needed to do, and your child has missed out on who knows what..maybe good maybe bad, you cant get it back now..so be careful this does no harm to your child..sometimes things ARE better left unsaid.


