He's Making Me So Mad!

Relax before you pop a vein. Sure it hurts but you have to accept it and move on. If he's such a jerk, wait until he's with another girl and walk up to him and plant a kiss on him and tell him you'll see him later, then just walk away. He will spend the rest of the date trying to make excuses and if his date confronts you, tell her about you and him and how he treated you. What goes around comes around. There's always tomorrow and you'll find the right guy.

I think you should talk to him, preferably in a public place, and basically ask him not to say bad things about you. But talk to him, not yell or get upset. It would be tempting to go off on him, but it will make you look psycho, not him.

If you decide to write a note, be careful in what you say just in case he does decide to show it off to everyone. Don't write anything that would come back to haunt you later, like a secret you two had, or deep feelings that you may be still feeling.

Finally, what may be the best choice is to ignore him, and get on with your life. Instead of walking up to him and embarrassing him in front of another girl, wait until you find a guy, and trust me, he will take notice. But don't just find another guy just to do this, take your time and find someone you truly care about.

Just remember that he wants you to react negatively and actually just react to whatever he does, so the best decision is not to give him what he wants. Play it off like you just don't care about him anymore, and you have your own life to live, because you really should move on to better things.

Oh, and don't beat the guy up. It would be funny, yes, but trust me, he won't stop bugging you after that. You will have to deal with him, and his mom, and whoever else wants to get involved.

I am sorry you are going through this. I believe we never become better people by being bad people. It is hard, but you will feel better about yourself if you conduct yourself in a good way. Let it go. You be the better people. Over time, people will definitely realize who you are. They will remember what happened between you and they will know you were the better person. Keep your mom and everyone else out of it. You learned something valuable from this bad experience: that people are not who they seem to be and that we have to know someone well to be able to trust that person. Move on. It hurts, but you will get over it with a little time. We have all had this same experience. I'm sorry you are hurting now.

Yea, get over him and there is no reason for you to get all worked up over him he is not worth it!
There is no reason to even stress over him anymore, let him go about his business and you do the same.

Okay, thanks everyone. I guess I should ignore him and forget about everything he says--I know longer care about him. Thanks so much!

This is much easier said than done, but trust me on this -- a little practice and you'll get this down pat: The best revenge is to act like he does not and never existed. If his name comes up in conversation, your reply should be a dead-on serious "who?". If you happen to see him, give him that blank look that you would give to a total stranger. If he attempts to talk to you, reply with a slightly annoyed "I'm sorry, do I know you?". Regardless of his response, give him a slightly irritated look and walk away. This will drive him absolutely nuts!

Okay, thanks!

First of all you got to relax and breath that is a start. I would probably just tell him you are threw with everything, you dont want no more of him or anything. I would move on in life and forget the past you got a life to live and better things to look forward to

I would think to just leave it alone. I understand it pisses you off, but if you doing something is going to make him tell over something small you do after something big like that, he's not even worth lookin at in the halls. Put a grin on your face, flirt with others, and thts how you can get back :)