Were you the dumper or dumpee in past relationships?

When I first started dating some years ago, I was always the one who got dumped or cheated on, but then when I got into more serious rand meaningful relationships as I got older, I tended to be the dumper because the guy I was dating wasn't treating me right or I changed as I grew up and wanted different things out of life to what he did. My last relationship I dumped the guy because I spent 5 years on and off with him, he was violent towards me every time we argued. I tried to change him and I eventually did but by then all the love I had for him had gone and I had grown strong enoough to let go for good. I taught the guy a serious lesson in life and I don't think he will ever go round hitting women again. I had the guy begging me to stay with him, but the damage had been done and it was too late. I made him love me, then dumped him, to get him back for all the pain he had caused me. The guy couldn't get over me and ended up stalking me for a while. He broke into my flat when I was out. I knew damn well it was him but he would never admit it, but I know it was him because of the things he took. If it was someone who was going to rob me, they would have taken my pc and Tv etc etc, but he didn't, he took stuff like my favourite parfume, which he brought me and a pair of earings that were one off's that he knew I loved. The guy was such an idiot, thinking he could still fool me, but I only knew him too well after putting up with 5 years of his shit. I'm just glad I got away from him, because I am now with a guy who I love very much and he loves me very much, we got engaged recently and he is the right guy for me. He treats me like a princess and can't beleive how some of my ex's treated me, it upsets him to hear the things I have been through. He makes me feel really special and like a woman.

What made you ask this question? Are you feeling guilty for dumping someone or did someone dump you?