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Bychoice

Bychoice

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Can I sue for palamonie in the state of FL ? If so how long would I have had to live with this person?

My boyfriend on and off since Mar. 03 begged and moved part of my house items to FL in Sept. 06 Oct. 06 I gave up my job I loved and moved me and my family including my brother with a medical condition to live together in FL. Trusting in him. Our agreement was if it did not work out he would pay all expenses for my family to me back to NC.
Jan 07 we went to talk to a realitor about buying a house. When the realitor emailed about houses she contacted us as if we were married. I help pick out colors for carpet to contertops...etc... June of 07 I left him and moved into an apartment. We became friends again within weeks. Due to me calling him. From this he invited me to his retirement ceremony July 26, 07. He proposed to me in front of over 60 people that I didn't know. We were to be married Dec 31, 07. Oct 1,07 me and my family moved back in with him. After seeing some things were still not right I refused to get married unless we did concouseling. After all I love him and I would not have moved from NC to FL if I didn't.
Well I've been praying the entire time. April the Lord open my eyes to thing and I found out he was online with alot of other women and the had been talking on his cell phone. I got him once and I called the woman. He went into a rage and told me to get out. April 15,08 he drew up eviction notice on me and my family. To be out in 15 days.
I kissed butt and he allowed us to stay. I caught him again cheating and he told me once again to get ou

 
 
 
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Submitted 64 days ago...

ldsch

ldsch

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You have absolutely no rights or recourse in this affair (no pun intended) because you are not married and never lived together long enough to even approach the definition of common-law marriage (if your state even recognizes that).

You've been used and you just let it happen, even suspecting this man would cheat on you. Now you're upset because you saw this coming and you didn't do anything about it. That's why you want to sue him. I'm sorry you were used this way but you never loved this man, he was just a partner of convenience. Now you want to believe you loved him because you've lost all the material benefits he might have provided you.

It is totally absurd to even think a man would go to counseling to correct problems "you" think he has before he even becomes married. Come on now, get real. What made you believe you could dictate to him what he should do? That is probably the reason he decided to move on. Now you should move on too.

 

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Submitted 64 days ago...

mahalo

mahalo

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This is a very dysfunctional relationship that you have put so much time, money and energy into. If I were you I would move out and move on!

 
 

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