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dchooseyone

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I have aproblem that continues to occur in my relationship, My partner always has condoms which we never use. When ask why he has them I recieved no response just silence. Or my partner walks around humming I think he may be ignoring me and the question. This has went on for about the past 2 years what do to think. This is a continuos argument between us I'm tired, I feel I need to move on.

 
 
 
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Submitted 361 days ago...

Artria

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Yes you have a problem....if you two dont use them you need to comfront him, because he may be having sexual entercourse with someone else and you should know, because if he chooses not to use the condoms one day he's abusing your safety for the next time you two have sex. And if it's been that long then you may need to move on because you two dont use them why should he have them? and because you two have been together for 2 years it may hurt to leave him but the best thimg for you to do for your protection is 1. guard your heart, 2. if you feel that you need to move on take a chance , thats how you learsn from mistakes, and thats how you fix problems...i hope my advice was helpful Good luck!!!!!

 

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Submitted 361 days ago...

sidelko

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Something seems out of place here.

Have you two talked about using condoms for you two? Are you on the pill? are you both STD free? Do you normally use them or not use them?

If he has them, and he isn't using them with you is it decoration, or thinking he will to be safe sometime? Do you know if the pile of his stash is going down over time?

I think you two need to have a heart to heart talk about where you stand as a couple. He has to hear you when you ask about it. Avoidance like that might indicate he is hiding something.

 

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Submitted 361 days ago...

primetime001

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Yes, confront him and find out the truth.

check the expiration dates on the condoms- if they're new, he's obviously buying condoms for someone other than you. Time for you to move on I think, no need to waste time dating someone who's lying and puts your health at risk.

 

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Submitted 186 days ago...

Fakery

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That does sound like an issue that you two need to deal with.

it can't be a very fulfilling sex life either

 
 

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