You are of an age where you can tell the judge what you would like to happen and he will take your wishes into account when making a decision. your dad and you more than likely will have to go to court to get the parenting plan changed. as far as your things, you may have to tell a judge this situation and have him make a decleration to keep your things. if not, they are just things and things can be replaced. you are makinge adult decisions here and i commend you for it. keep that though process when you do go to court. keep it fact based and as hard as it is to do at your age, listen to the adults. you may not agree all the time but they do know what they are talking about most of the time.

