Without an attorney to help guide you through the legal maze of laws, this could get messy, complicated and expensive in a hurry if handled wrong. You might want to try presenting these facts to her as a last resort to get her going. Most attorneys will give the first consultation free. It is very likely that you know someone who knows someone who could at least write a "motivational" letter on a legal letterhead. This will let her know that you're tired of waiting and hopefully will get the dialogue going.

