I am 20 years old and never recieved the support from father that was ordered by the court.

I am 20 years old. My father was never in my life and was ordered to pay child support and he never paid it. He decided to come into my life the day before I turned 18. He told me out his own mouth that he knows he owes me thousands of dollars in child support. But still he doesn't help me financially. his reasons are that I'm grown now and I should do things as a grown woman and stop depending on other people. however, I am still in need of help I can't do it on my own. And I am on my own. I know he was ordered to pay my mother and not me. My mother struggled for 19 years trying to take care of me and 18 of thoes years trying to take care of me and my brother. then she struggled for 12 of those years trying to take care of me and two others. my mother should not even have had to worry about taking care of me the way she had to because my father should have been a real man and took care of me. Now he has two other daughters that he doesn't take care of either. what can I do about this.