Legally no,morally yes .You have to let yoour step a hole if he could possibly smoke out in the yard for the baby sake,if a cop happens to go by the house and they smell the weed is going to be more trouble that he and anyone in the house is going to be able to handle believe me,when it comes to baby is a different game,they could take the baby from you even do you are not the one puffing and about you moving out you have to research this very good 1.is the father going to really care about our kid when the baby starts waking him up at 3:00 in the morning,2.financially 3.relashionship,whwre it stands right now 4.are you ready to be a mom 5.remember this is not a barbie ,it cant defend or let you know he or she is uncorftable 6.are your parents puttin pressure ?
and about cleaning everybodies mess ask for a family meeting and let them know your concern and you are willing to do and what is fair in your mind and listen to everyone so they could listen to you,,,good luck sweatheart,and is always about the baby! don`t forget he did not ask to be here..



