I don't think you made a fool of yourself at all! Not in the slightest! You just gave your true feelings, which seem far more compassionate and human then hers. Don't take it personally. she's obviously hung up in the past or for whatever reason not ready to forgive and forget. Now that you've let her know you're there I am sure she is thinking about it. She now knows how to get in touch with you whenever she's ready. Reaching out to someone isn't foolish. Good luck to you!

