I like someone in a relationship already what should i do?

I went through the same thing a few months ago but i was the one with my gf fighting.. me and the 3rd party got closer and closer every day. you should honestly say to her that you arnt in a possition to give advice because you would of coarse be bias on the situation.. like start to hint at the situation at hand and maybe you can get more out of it. im one for being blunt and everything. i just got out of a 2 year relationship cause i started to hang out with one of my old friends and i pretty much just fell in love... having to put your self out there is the hardest thing to do and i understand that but how hard is it for you to just sit back and watch the two of them fight and know that you could treat her better...


as for the company you should find out sooner then later cause that can cause difficulties in any friend ship

Wel my mother had an affair.. And it realy affected me.. Soo if she has any kids stay clear of her..

Stay well clear hun but be ger friend and you will be there foe her if her relationship ends, you should never start a relationship based on lies as it will come back and bite you hard!

It is hard t osit back and watch, but remember this... she is not thinking of you.. she is involved with her girlfriend. If she wasn't, she wouldnt be fighting with her. She would simply leave her.

Sometimes we get caught up in "rescue syndrome" and we want to rescue someone from something we perceive as bad...but in the end, until that person reaches the point of no return, they will stay in the situation and just use you as a cruch...as someone to give support, etc.

Do not let someone take advantage of you and do not pursue her until she is out of the relationship...this way you know she chooses you because she wants to be with YOU and not just because you are a safe haven when she is going through something hard.

Keep your head up, stay strong. :)

In honesty, I put up with mine for 12 years and was not looking at others in what they saw, finally this month I changed my number and let her stay with her mother at 50 and move one. You need to do the same. Being used and not fun, I have been there, give her up move on, look for better. Best.

If she really like you she would have already left her girl for you in since she been lying i'am thinking she just useing you do yourself a farvor in move up i'am sure your find ya solemate one day she out there just keep your head up in leave her alone be4 you get hurt i see it happen all the time

best luck to you

If these two have been together for years and you sense that she really loves her, then you need to walk away. Sounds like she likes to have the best of both worlds. I'm sure you can make her choose. Just give her the choice. Besides if you want to be in a relationship that is worth it , I would suggest be with someone who really loves you. Someone who will not choose you and someone else. That person is out there somewhere they will find you and you will have the choice to experience true love or to let the opportunity pass you by. God bless you

Sounds like your friend is a user. Run away from her don't walk!