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kbky11

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I wonder what you all think ? if a man has a wife and has 2 children and then when hes forty turns gay and lives with another man and leaves the movie star wife and children . is this right or is he crazy ? do you just one day change the mind and say iam a man lover . which i can not see why any one would want to sleep with a nasty old male any way. i love the women and they are so nice and warm and soft and they have curves that a man just dont have and a form that wow is to die for. also they smell better even when they are dirty then a man does clean . and i know to much about my body and how nasty we men get to even think that thought . and the women on here are so pretty and nice and they are like eye candy to me. so why the hell would any one want a nasty man?

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Answer 1 / 8 - Submitted 39 days ago...

LissaC

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I cant tell you why a man would want a man, but my reason for liking men is simple... I have the curves and nice smell, and softness and all that shit you mentioned, so I want something different in my bed with me! I want the strong hands and arms to hold me, I want the big muscular back for me to rub and the nice firm booty to squeeze... I like my man.
As for a man liking another man, that is their own personal problem.... Literally!
I pitty the lady that was left for another man! Poor thing!

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Answer 2 / 8 - Submitted 38 days ago...

Laotian842

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I have a relative who was married to a drop-dead gorgeous woman, they had three children and when the oldest was about ten or so, he announced to his wife that he was attracted to men. No big surprise, his father did the same thing years earlier. In the father's case, it was at a time when homosexuality was never discussed, let alone acknowledged. They were probably both in denial. In the case of the son, it was at a time when coming out was much easier, socially. Why does this happen? Contrary to what most fundamentalists would like you to believe, I would say that genetics plays a strong role. You're either wired that way or you're not. In both cases, I don't think they suddenly "turned gay", I think it was always there, but at a certain point in time, an opportunity presented itself to both of them which confirmed their suppressed feelings. I feel more than pity for both of the wives. They did nothing wrong. It wasn't like either of them let themselves go, quite the opposite. I can't imagine their humiliation. It's bad enough to lose your spouse, but to someone of their same sex? It doesn't do a thing for me, but you know, whatever floats your boat. This is why we should be more accepting, so that in the future, other innocent people don't become collateral damage.

 
Answer 3 / 8 - Submitted 38 days ago...

ladysweets

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Pesonaly i don't think its nothing wrong with a man liking a man I don't know why in hell somebody would leave a women that's beautiful an has everything a man can ever ask for but that's the way some people are but there's really nothing wrong with it yeah it's a sin but at the end of the day god made you who you are an he said come as your are so do what you wanna do an be happy doing it it's your life an if being with a man instead of being with your wife an your 3 children make's you happy go right ahead cause at the end of the day your wife your friend's an not even me can stop your from leaving your wife for man or better ye stop your attraction to men

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Answer 4 / 8 - Submitted 37 days ago...

fubar

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Well i have never thought of finding love in another mans brown eye, but there have been times when the wife bitched so much that i thought it would be better if i was gay. high maintanece women may have drove him too it of he was living in denile for a long time and finaly had enough. if i were gay i would have to say im a lesbian trapped in a mans body,,lol

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Answer 5 / 8 - Submitted 35 days ago...

Englishmaven

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Men who love other men love them for the same reasons women love men. It is not a choice someone makes one day. The person was always who he is now; he just didn't understand it or he caved in to the pressures of society that demanded he have a relationship with a woman. No one would choose the problems a gay person has to go through. I would also like to add that is is not his problem. It is a problem for the other people who don't understand it. Live and let live.

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Answer 6 / 8 - Submitted 35 days ago...

Clandestine1

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The wife, kids and movie star status is irrelevant. If a man is gay, he needs to pursue who he is. It is unfortunate that American society still pushes marriage and kids on people. If Society didnt push people wouldnt run off and get married right away thinking that is what they are supposed to do.

Sounds like he has always had feelings for men, but supressed them because of family, religion, etc... and now, at 40, he realises he doesnt have much time left to be himself and live his life and follow his heart.

It is unfortunate for the wife and the kids that may be hurt because of him leaving, but it is no ones fault, not even his. If he was in a free society that embraced gay people, he would have been raised in a better place and never would have got married, thus he wouldnt be hurting them today.

You have to follow your heart and what feels natural to you. You can not fight biology. Gay people are born that way...it is in nature and has been since the beginning of time. Religion has nothing to do with this either.

AND - if women are what YOU want and they are like candy to YOU... then just stay with women and dont worry about what other people do. :)

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Answer 7 / 8 - Submitted 35 days ago...

kbky11

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OH iam not worried a bit but i just asked this question and wondering how people felt because i dont judge and was not intending to . i just want to know! sorry if i pissed some one off.

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Answer 8 / 8 - Submitted 35 days ago...

Clandestine1

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Not mad at all.. just defending them because I know people that have been in the situation you described and it ripped them apart to go through it... but they survived :)

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