If she is having mixed emotions, the best thing for you to do is step back and give her time to sort things out. If you refuse to let her do that, she may end up resenting you. If she needs time to figure out what she wants, give it to her. I know that she may be breaking your heart by doing this, but she is doing the best thing, she is being honest with you and she is trying to sort it out. I think that she just needs time to get things thought through and if she comes back to you, it will be a stronger relationship. If she does not, then that is not what she wants and I know that you do not want to be with someone that does not want to be with you, right?
Just let her have her space and let her know that you are there for her.
Good luck to you!
| You are here: Home Categories Relationships & Family Gay & Bisexual My girlfriend said she needs a break........ |
Submitted 127 days ago...
But the temptation to phne and txt is sometimes too great! any ideas apart from turning my phone off which isnt feasible. thanks for your help
I know how you feel. I think the best thing that you can do is get busy doing something that will keep your mind off her. First of all, just tell yourself that if you keep nagging her, if you don't give her the space that she needs, and if you keep texting and calling her, she is just going to pull back farther. You will push her away! Trust me! When a girl says that she needs space, give it to her or you will lose her for sure!
Find something else to do when you are thinking of her, look through questions here on webanswers and answer what you know, that will keep you busy!
Ok for the past few days we have been chatting, all very amicable...... but i dont know where i am? she says she loves me, she calls me pet names etc, so now i am confused and feel like backing off..... i keep thinking that i can deal with the ex but i know i can't, not until she has dealt with her feelings. i do love her but do not want to be 2nd in her thoughts (and love) so i have told her that i think i need space too, which i do.....
was this a good move?
If she nee a break give her one and don't pressure her eventually she'll come to her senses and relize she can't be with out you.
Awarded Answer (What’s This?)
Answer 6 / 6 - Submitted 123 days ago...
It was a good move, infact I was going to suggest you do that after I read that she says she loves you.... Sounds like she is playing games and you need to put a stop to it before it gets carried away.
Just give her her space and take some for yourself as well. If she calls you tell her that you think it be best if she didnt call you for a while and tell her that you also need time to think about what you want.
If you keep letting her run back and forth, she will never stop!
Good luck to you!
-Lissa
This Question was awarded 123 days ago therefore you can no longer post an Answer. However you may post a comment below.
Let her go.She is still seeing her boyfriend. piip
I had the same thing happen to me, and I found poems written to her ex years later. I finally got her out of my life. I didnt need the heartache anylonger. I found out I was too good for her. I am happy and free now. You deserve better, take a break, kick off your shoes and relax, it will be fine. Best
Im in a similar situation, girlfriend set me up on msn with one of her friends, and i made the mistake of talking to her, ive seen her since n she said she wouldnt talk about it n she forgived me. now she has been playin mind games for the last 2 months and has gone away, even though we are in a long distance relationship anyway, to THINK to sort things out, she promised me she wasnt gonna break up, but her phone is off n im worried she might cheat on me, or never turn her phone back on/dump me.
Add A Comment
