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Savvy

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How to deal with a CRAZY ex-boyfriend who won't leave you alone

Ok, so heres the deal... I've been daiting this guy on and off for about 8 months and I reacently broke up with him. I have made my-self very clear that this would be the last time that we would ever be together. He keeps puting guilt trips on me trying to make me feel bad for breaking up with him (and he does a wonderful job of it) like for example: He went to texas for basic training over the summer and yesterday he told me that one of his really good friends had died in a road-side bomb accident. (That is one of many) WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????

 
 
 
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Submitted 361 days ago...

primetime001

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Don't accept the guilt or blame he tries to place on you.

Just shut it down, stop talking to him, ignore his emails. It's time for both of you to move on.

 

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Submitted 361 days ago...

sdaviskieran

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Well it wasent the best thing to do when you got back with him the first time. Look if you really know that you dont want him then just end it. Sounds like there might be a little bit of you that may like the attention that a man would go through all that trouble to be with you I mean who wouldn't like that. But if all honesty you dont have feelings for him then end it by not taking his phone calls not talking at all to him If that is what you really want and not the attention then thats what you do no matter the sad stories because if hurting him is what your worried about then dragging a guy on a ride you know will eventually end will just hurt him even more. Truth of the matter is with these questions no one can answer them but you but I hope my advice helped.

 

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Submitted 171 days ago...

tomturkey

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Tell him your sorry to hear about his friend. Then tell him that you have ended the relationship and not to continue to call you. If he continues tell him he leaving you no other option than to get a restaining order. You just want to move on. I know it is hard but some guys just can't take no for an answer. Good luck

 
 

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