Is phone sex cheating

It is one thing to glance at a hot girl walking by, I know I have done that, even when I was with a girl I was dating. Little things like that happen, and shouldn't be considered a big deal.

Phone sex, is a bit much. It could be a cry for help that he isn't happy in the relationship with you in some form. It could be he has some need being met by having phone sex with this other girl.

I can tell this bothers you alot. More so then you probably are stating.

Are you happy with this relationship? do you want to continue staying with him?

if you do, you need to have a serious talk with him. See if what you want and need, is in alignment with what he wants and needs. You'll have to trust him again that he is done with that and is committed too you. Going to relationship consouling might be a good idea as well to work though things.

Hope that helps, good luck.

This is a small cry for what a mate is not getting in their relationship ,would you should it call your mate and talk, moan or whatever it takes to replace the other person.You should know your mate or even spice up the bedroom with role play,dress like a porn star at home,upgrade your sexy.A man wants a woman in daily life,but a high powered freak at home.

Are you sure the are just having phone sex? If a text message said I'll see you in am don't you think they are also seeing each other?

To my mind phone sex is still sex so I would suggest asking for more info

Key word "see" now if this was a phone sex operator she would have said "talk" and most sex operators are not going to tell their phonees they love them. Get you a detective if you cant afford that than i would call that show cheaters or something sounds fishey to me. I would definately follow him where he is going may be someone he works with get a friend he dont knows car or get a good friend to help you sounds funny to me Good luck and I hope this is not the case of him seeing another.

Phone sex or seeing someone is all considered cheating. This is very hard to deal with for you. I wish I could say that he seems to be sencere. If he told you he was done with it all and then you catch him in lie thats not good. Getting trust back is very hard. You need to search your heart and determine if you can forgive him. If you can I would sujest you bring up councling to save your marriage. If he is willing to then there is hope. He can say all day he will stop but that does not mean he will. By the way phone sex is not just a text or phone message it is two people actually having sex. See you in the am means see you.

I,d be asking myself why is he doing it.The reason anyone,man or women would seek sexual pleasure from another place or person is because their mate is not doing anything but going thru the motions,as if it were no more than their duty as the spouse.I think you should be looking at yourself and to be able to be honest with your answers and see that your not really fooling him when your having sex making him believe your really loving it,and he,( I would say) knows it but does,nt say it to you because he does,nt want to hurt your feelings.You have to some how some way start being more of the XXXX behind the door and know your a women of the 20,s not the 40,s.If you don,t start to change,believe me I,ve seen this happen many times,His next move will be out instead of in on the phone.Speak from exp.Good Luck God Bless

If you called that number and got a regular womans message machine he more likely is cheating on you and using the phone sex excuse as a simple less painful out. If the text says i love you and ill see you in the a.m. that is much more serious than he says it is.

If he is cheating on you he is probablly not satisfied with the relationship he has with you which means you two need to sit down and have a long talk, because maybe hes not the only one whos not happy, you could be to and just ignoring the signs or afraid to admit that things arent perfect.

I hope everything works out and you get your happiness back.

If the number didn't not start with a 1-900 and the credit card shows no recurring billing for this "chats", you can bet anything he is cheating on you not just by phone but physically too. I agree that he tried to down play it by saying he was just having phone sex. as I agree that you need to have a very serious conversation with your husband, if what he wants or needs is not compatible with your wants and needs and the two of you cannot find common ground to compromise on saving your marriage, then call it quits before it gets much worse.

Yep i think it's cheating my boyfriend already did that