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Submitted 204 days ago...

Man1

Man1

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Is this rude for my girlfriend?

There is this girl in my girlfriend and I chemistry class who tells my girlfriend that she has a cute boyfriend, which is me, while I'm right there in the class too.She tells my girlfriend that she should be aware of other girls because of my looks.She called me a dime bag, which is another word for good looking the other day.She told my girlfriend that if she was her, she would follow me around and fight over me if a girl tries to take me.I think that this is over-stepping it a bit.Is she saying that my girlfriend isn't good enough looking for me to keep girls away from me indirectly?

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Answer 1 / 6 - Submitted 204 days ago...

the_mekanic

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Tell her to step off, especially if you two are serious.

Her behavior is just downright tacky and rude.

Expressly tell her you have no interest in her, and not to comment as such any further.


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Answer 2 / 6 - Submitted 204 days ago...

LissaC

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You are right, she IS over stepping it. I think that she is jealous that your girlfriend has you and she wants you so she is trying to intimidate your girl a little but you 1st need to reassure your girl that you ONLY have eyes for her (if that is the case) and reassure her that no matter what other people say, they will not get inbetween you and her. Then if this classmate makes any further comments likt this, you need to step in and let her know that you are not interested in her OR anyother girl, so they can say anything they like, let her know that nothing will come between you and your girl, and then you and your girl should politly thank her for her complement.

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Answer 3 / 6 - Submitted 204 days ago...

the_mekanic

the_mekanic

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Lissa, how right you are. Graciously telling someone to buzz off indeed does have great value. You just may even severely annoy the party in question if you are really sweet about telling them where to go without any anger. Not that there's any enjoyment there to watch them go away fuming. Maybe I need to learn not to be vindictive! ;-)

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Answer 4 / 6 - Submitted 201 days ago...

angelodiroma

angelodiroma

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Well that girl has a problem stick with your girlfriend. when she does something like that you have to stop her. Speak up. tell the girl you don't like the way she talks about your girl. unfortunatelly this girl needs to know her place and the only one who can do that is you.

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Answer 5 / 6 - Submitted 180 days ago...

NitroG

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To be honest, girls will just try harder for a guy who is already with someone. It's not a reflection of your girlfriend other then she is trying to steal you from her, there for she would be better looking. People like this are often very shallow and to be honest even if your handsome she will likely lose interest and move on to the next challenge. If you wanna get rid of her, be blunt about it as possible. The thing about these type of people is they also don't take to hints very well and since she is overstepping her bounds maybe she needs to be knocked down a bit she obviously thinks very highly of herself.

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Answer 6 / 6 - Submitted 178 days ago...

babydoll3151

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She has the hots for you! She does not think your girl is not good enough for you,but she is letting you know she is available any time you are ready for her.Tell her you appreciate her concern,but you can take care of your business,she does not need to be worried about fights with other girls.Your girl could answer her:How sweet of you /for telling her how hot you are/,and he is all MINE.

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