It can be a big turn on or turn off. If it's what you feel, do it. You will learn if you share this common goal or not. It can broke the relationship, do nothing or strengthen it, but in all case it will be better than now.
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Submitted 53 days ago...
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Answer 2 / 6 -
Submitted 53 days ago...
It all depends on a) if they are commitment-shy by nature or not, and b) how they feel about you. Sometimes b) can override a) if they feel strongly enough about you. If you're already in a serious relationship with this guy, then he's already demonstrated a certain degree of commitment. In this case, it shouldn't scare him if you tell him that you want to marry him.
Answer 3 / 6 -
Submitted 52 days ago...
Yes, it is a total waste of time. You are not being very good to yourself...you deserve better.
Answer 4 / 6 -
Submitted 51 days ago...
The reason I ask, is that I have said this to my boyfriend and he was very happy and seemed fine. It made me curious as to how other feel about about that type of situation. kind of like a study.
oh wow sooty411---That so a perfect answer! lol
This answer was edited by Got2Give2Get 51 days ago.
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Answer 5 / 6 -
Submitted 44 days ago...
There is no benifit for a man today to get married. it is too easy to get out and 9 times out of 10, the man looses everything and in some cases has to pay the ex vaginamony for a decision he has no control over. in this day in age where a woman is equal to a man,(or at least the perception) it doesnt seem that way when a marriage ends. i have allways thought of marriage as a bank CD. you dont get much in return for your investment, and there is a substantial penalty for early withdrawl.
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Answer 6 / 6 - Submitted 39 days ago...
Wow. Answers #3 and #5 should tell you quite a bit. There are guys for whom a relationship is simply not a good fit for them. They don't want to be tied down to anyone, and usually this extends to everything else as well. They don't like commitments of any kind, but emotional commitments just plain scare them. Then there are guys like myself who love to be in a relationship, I just don't go into it with anyone who happens along. It's like a job interview, you study your prospective life partner and if, over time, it feels like a good match, you go with it. Your boyfriend sounds like a well-adjusted individual. If he was brought up in a family that had a stable marriage, that probably plays into it as well. If a couple is in a strong and stable relationship, I would think that most boyfriends wouldn't have a problem being told by their girlfriends that they would like to get married someday. "Someday" is very open-ended, it doesn't demand a wedding date, so the boyfriend is not likely to feel locked in to anything.
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Submitted 23 days ago...
Great answer. and i would have agree with you about those two answers.
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