How do you get a guy to like you

Be yourself and you will stand out, it takes time, i bet there are few that like you but they too shy to say it.

First thing to remember is not to rush things. You're only going in to the 7th grade, and you'll have YEARS to find guys to date you.

Also, just be friends with all the guys you can before making a decision on becoming boy/girlfriends. That way they get to know the real you, and you get to know the real them. DON'T be friends with them with the intention of dating them. Just be friends to be friends. If you two decide to date, then it will be a lot more successful.

If it doesn't happen, don't give up. Like I said, you have years to find many guys, and there is no reason to hurry up right now to find one. Just network (talk and be friends) with a bunch of people, and before you know it, you will find a really cool guy to date!

Be natural and practice the golden rule "Do unto others what you would like others do unto you."

It seems to you that you should have boyfriends by now, and maybe some of your friends do, or they may say that they do. You need to do things in your own time. The older you are, the better you do in your relationships, so don't be in such a hurry to get into one. That said, just be yourself because you cannot be who you are not. Be honest and generous with your personality, not with actual gifts. Have a sense of humor and be able to laugh at yourself if you find yourself in a funny situation. Look for someone who shares the things you enjoy, like the kind of music you listen to and the movies you like to see. Don't try too hard to be pleasing. You are worth liking for who you are. Do not change yourself.

Work on your confidence and make sure you love yourself , because if you don't like yourself than whose to say someone should like you!

Hello dear young lady,
I'm going to tell you a truth that will remain true even when you're all grown! The opposite sex, (boys that eventually grow into men) are attracted to CONFIDENCE. What does that mean? They love, love ,love girls who can chill and just be themselves without hangups! Believe me, they might start off liking the hot cheerleader but will grow quickly tired when they discover how shallow or petty she is (not that all cheerleaders are shallow and petty!). So, what to do? Be who you are with CONFIDENCE. Do what you like, say what's really on your mind, dress the way you want to, and learn to laugh, not takes things personally or too seriously. ACT as if you're the hottest ticket in town (without being stuck up) and you'll make believers out of everyone. Bottom line? Just be YOU! p.s. it wouldn't hurt to talk about what also might interest boys, i.e. music, movies, as long as you like these subjects as well. Good luck!

I know when I was in the 7th grade i felt the same way as you. Honestly the only way I did get a boyfriend was to ask out the guy I like myself. You really should be yourself, that's the key to get guys to like you for who you are. Honestly I am sure there are lots of boys who like you, but are just to shy or don't think you like them out there. That is something I discovered after middle school and entered high school. So if you like a boy, talk to them, get to know them a little, then be confident and ask them out.

I think I ended up writing a note and making my friend give it to him. So if you're a little shy you can always try that. :)
best of luck

At your age guys aren't really that into girls yet. Females mature much more quickly than males do, and start thinking about being a couple and romance and love while guys are thinking about video games and skateboarding. lolol!

I really wish you little girls would stop trying to rush to adulthood. You are what, 13 or so now? You have only 5 more years to be a child and enjoy the benefits of childhood. Once you hit 18 and college, you are an adult with all the obligations and responsibilities and headaches and worries that come with it. You have to get a job, pay bills, and stress out about the future.

Right now all you have to do is concentrate on school, doing a few chores and having a good time. I say you stop worrying about boys and think about yourself.

Boys will be there, and the horrible thing is they really don't change that much from 13 to 33!

Get a boyfriend when you get in high school and are more mature and able to handle the emotional turmoil that is going to come with that relationship. You are thinking its all wonderful and that you will be happy 24/7 when in reality, you date then you break up and you will be crying and upset. Why are you in a rush to have that happen to you when you are only in the 7th grade?

So you are in the 7th grade? Ok...first off you are still young but you probably are ready for a boy to sweep u off your feet and tell you sweet stuff. Well what you need to do so u can get a boy to notice you is to stop wanting a boy. Usually when you want something you get desperate, and well, u also will look desperate and guys dont like that. Next get the attention of the boy that caught your eye, flirt make coversation, act normal like if it was one of your girls. Hang out with him in groups, do something different with yourself, change the look of your style. Very importantly impress! and just stop worrying if no boys notice you, in time you will have lots of boys following you and then you wont know what to do. have fun!

Look, smell, and feel good everytime you see him. Guys like pretty, clean, and happy women. Sound smart and cool. Do not act fake. Be in style. Be a good listener when he talks. Do not act nervous. Smile. Maintain a good posture when bumping into him.