In love with 19 yr old who thinks that joining the escort biz is ideal way to get extra money

If she thinks escort service is the best choice for her she is definitely at a point in her life where she neds your support. You need to make her see how much you care by doing actions to show that you will be there for her if she needs you. Maybe help her find a part time job, give her advice on how she make money some other way. If she is pretty enough to do escort services then she is pretty enough to get a job as an inside sales girl. Let her know you will help through the hard days if she needs it. if you want her to not to do for you then you need to do something for her. maybe she is just saying this to you to see what you'll say or do to prove your love, and it happens. So do something about it. Be a man and make a stand. Wanting a girl to change something for you also calls for commitment. Give her a promise ring and let her know you're serious about her. If you can't do that then you're better of letting her do what she wants. You decide. Get back at me.

Well... she has a inside sales job already at the mall. i have pleaded with her not to quit that job. Its no bluff, she is escorting now and the yesterday when she explained her first experience it was hard on my ears knowing that she would go that far with complete strangers. The idea of a promise ring sounds good and i may give it a try i just hope she is accepting of it.

If she is in the escort business,then your problems has just begun. If you do not want any problems from her, cut her loose. You are asking for headaches upon headaches. The lack of trust and suspicion will always be there. Move on . Leave the escorts to the politicians.