First thing you have to find out is if he is willing to move where you're at. Perhaps he has a job he doesn't want to leave, or for some reason doesn't want to move. If he is willing to relocate, then both of you need to figure out how rent will be paid. It would probably be best for you two to do 50/50, but if you don't have a job (and he may not either if he moves far enough away), this may not happen very easily until a month or two.
My advice to you is to find a job, almost anything, that you can do, and try to save up some money before asking him to come over. That way there is some money saved up, and life will be just a little bit easier. I know it's hard to find a job, many people are experiencing that right now, but just keep trying, don't give up, because if you're successful, you two will probably be living together in October!
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Me and my boyfirend have been dating for a year and a feew weeks and i recently moved to another state to go to school and our relationships getting harder an herder because our long distance...i wanty him to come in october so we can live together but i dnt even have a job n no bodys hiring im jus ugh i really need some advice?
Talk to him, and think about whether you can see yourself with him forever. also, ask yourself how compatible you really are, if only after a short time, you find yourself having problems!
Just open the line communication. Take time to make a call, text message, mails and etc. Both of you have trust to each other.
If you moved to another state to attend school, more than likely you are not ready for a serious relationship. Living together would be a big mistake. It would make things worse. You main focus should be on your studies. Moving to another state to attend school can put a lot of pressure on you to succeed. And having a boyfriend with financial problems will only add to your stress. Finish school, then focus on other things.
If right nows not a good time you have to think are you willing to wait if you really love him then you can wait but i know its really hard to because your in love but if he loves you he will do anything he can to be right by yourside on the quickness
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