Confused!

That question alone can burn your marriage and ruin it for good. My advice is to get to the bottom of it, and by that, I mean talk to her about it, and find out why you are having the suspicions. There are few things worse for a relationship than the mind thinking of what could have happened, rather than what did happen.
We always assume the worst, and I hope that it isn't the case in your marriage. Just talk to her, and see why you're thinking that she may have ever cheated on you. Be prepared for any answer. Try to be calm, and talk about it like adults.

You obviously have a reason to be suspisious so you shold talk to her but dont accuse her of anything just tell her that you have been feeling like there is something not quiet right with ye, tell her hat you love her abd that she can talk to you about anything and that you want to help her if there is a problem with her or in youre relationship but be calm with her because if she is cheating there must be a reason why!

If you think it's still going on, there are ways to help you find the truth. When you answer the phone, does the person on the other end hang up right away, often? Is there a change in her behavior toward you? Does she spend an unusual amount of time "out with the girls"? Does she hide her cell phone bill from you? Does she spend a lot of time on the computer, and logs off when you enter the room? These are not necessarily surefire clues, but if the answer to most or all of these questions is "yes", then you have a right to be suspicious and you should be doing a little snooping around, because somebody knows the truth. And if she is cheating, then someone somewhere is disgusted by it and would tell you if you asked.

If you suspect it, it probably is. You need to find out for sure one way or the other for your peace of mind and for the sake of your marriage. You can find out for sure. You can get a little device from Radio shack that will turn a recorder off and on every time the phone rings. You will need to hide the recorder. It must be connected to a phone outlet. This will not work on cell phones. You will need a recorder that has a remote for an external mike. Also there is something called a key logger that you can put on the computer that will log everything typed on the computer; you can secretly read later. Good luck and God bless.

60% of all married people have or do cheat on their spouse and theres 2 people in a marriage so statistically speaking every marriage has a cheater and sometimes both do all this is factual not my opinion only 1 in 4 people are said to be happily married percentages arent nice when it comes to good mariages my advice would be to tell her to "open up to you" n tell her that nothing can make you stop loving her not that thats the case worst 2 worst find physical evidence first b4 confronting her if shit goes sour its good to have it in court for a divorce so she cant take take half after crushing your heart or n this sucks but works just cheat on her yeah i said it women to wrongs dont make a right but can stop a fight but b sure if u do that that she is cheating otherwise your just an axxhole

This is not what you should be focusing your time on.Being with her and showing how much you care is all that matters.You will beat yourself up everyday wondering.The key is to be happy if she tells you she is cheating.Then thats when you leave or stay. piip

If you are asking that question then I think you should talk to her and tell her how you are feeling and see what she says.

Probably not... but since you are so worried that she might have... maybe YOU have been cheating?

Well, i know most of the signs. because i did, and then my husband did. there will be an immediate emotional, maybe even physical withdrawl. she may create a new e-mail. change passwords on computer and/or phone. act more private. jump when you walk in the room if she is on the computer. come home a little later then usual. when u asks whats wrong, she may say she is just tired and run down. spending more time with friends - cuz she is actually with someoen else. pull away from you. not as much sex. lose weight, start to look really good. act super happy. does she have any of these? why do u think she is?