Exgirlfriend over wife

If you are misleading her then you need to stand up and be a man, tell her the truth! Just be honest and tell her how you feel, no sense in dragging it out if you are unhappy because in the end it will only hurt your wife more and that is selfish of you.
Good luck.

There was a reason you married your wife and not your ex-girlfriend. right now you dont have to pay bills with her,argue about why the trash wasnt taken out,witnessing flu symptoms with her. first you need to have some respect for your wife as another person. you need to take a step back. you married her and made PROMISES. you can say all day long it was for the wrong reasons or you shouldnt have but that day YOU DID want to. you need to absolutely stop talking to your ex. treat her like tequila and your an alcoholic. tell your wife everything that youre feeling and both of you go to marriage councling. YOU need to go into this with amo to save your marriage and your wifes point of view of the man she had a wedding with.

The things is I met this beautiful amazing lady in 2004 and I really loved her, we had a huge connection, but because people didn't like her,saying she was fat and all that, I was was so embarrased,and I did not continue with her, but knowing deep down we had a special thing. i met my current wife and she was told bout the lady I was with and making jokes of fat she, I was hurt and pretended,knowing deep down she is the ONE.

I went on with my current Wife living in two separate countries,never dated a lot,or got to know each other better,it was all over the net or sms, so when I got the visa and moved with her,then I realised i made the biggest mistake of my life. Things started to fall apart,she got pregnant and decided she wanna terminate,I was furious, on that day I went away, and even spend new year on my own watching other people celebrating while watching fireworks in the lakes,and my wife just terminated the pregnancy yesteday. the funny part is that we were getting married in nine days,so it was a touch and go

An Angel from heaven came, and I got an email if everything is ok, that she has a feeling something is not right with me and she is worried. That was the Beautiful Lady I met before. That is when I started reconncting with her and lost the love for my wife.

I am now on a process of moving to another state for a new beggining and new exciting Job,new enviroment, and to really work things out with my Lady of my life.

My opinion is that every new relationship is always fun and exciting. that will always fade. i am not saying the love fades, but it changes. of course its exciting with your ex-girlfriend. believe me, i was in the same situation. you made a committment, stick to it. it will be worth it in the long run. every person that i know personally, that left someone for someone else - it never works out. the ONLY way for you to really know how you feel about your wife is to cut this other girl loose. she is wrong for being with you anyhow. you are a married man. clear your head, stay away from this other woman, and give your marriage a real shot! give your all to the woman you married. if you guys make it, you will have such a strong marriage.