How to take my unfaithful wife back?

Well if you love her then maybe you could try.you both need to set down and see how to work out the communication prob you were both having befor. im no expert but i went through it and diff things work for diff people.you both just need to just set back and remember why you both fell in love in the first place and as for the kids that would be another reason to try and work it out.my parents didnt work out and i think that worked best then watching them go at one anothers throats.but if you are goin to try and work it out then you have to shut the door on the past or your kids will pay for it in the long run. like i said im no expert but altimatly you will mave to make that choice on first whats good for the kids then whats good for you.i hope things work out and i hope my advice helped a little

It is very hard to trust someone again when they have cheated in the past, but if you do really love each other then perhaps it is time to sit down and have a good chat. Find out why she strayed in the first place, and tell her how you feel about her, while also letting her know that this is her last chance. If she strays again you will have to say goodbye. It is difficult when there are kids involved as you want to do what is best for them and hurt them as little as possible.

I can say that I feel your pain. I was the victim of infidelity in my marriage. My husband confessed it to me about a year ago that he had been unfaithful in the 1st 6 months of our marriage. I love him dearly and we have a child together. He had only done it once. I can tell you right now that it will not be easy to move on from that, it will probably be one of the hardest things to do, but if you do remain together, it will all be worth it. I found my faith in the Lord and drew my strength from him and with his help we both overcame something that couldve destroyed our marriage. There is a great book about healing a marriage called "The Love Dare". I suggest you both read it together and see if it helps you. Best of luck I truly hope your marriage overcomes this.

Here's a simple rule of thumb. If there is no trust, there is no marriage. Both parties have to be willing to communicate and most importantly trust one another. Without these two vital components of marriage. It will fail. I hate to say it, but life is too short. Move on.

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Update please.

Yes, can we have an update on this, it is over 3 months old....

I'm on my third marriage. I was the faithful one. I don't believe it ever goes back to being the same. If you lose that trust, it takes years and sometimes you never get it back. It's very hard to make the marriage work. You never truly feel like that person "loves" you and only you. Being hurt and deceived is so painful. I'd start over with someone new. You can always fall in love again. You may realize things you really didn't like about her anyway. Good luck. There's plenty of good, trustworthy women out there.

Well you have four reasons to take her back.one you still love her.two she wants
to work things out with you.three and four the two kids.but let her know you will
not stand for the texting and adultery again.hope all goes well.

We still need an update.

It is very hard to trust againg after a wife has done damage to the marrige you will never be the same maybe when you get back together for a month but you mind will star thinking again.about the past even with help it will never change it happen to me after 8 years.i try and try for 8 years.nothing work.keep close to the kids.be freand it work better.