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PASSIVE1107

PASSIVE1107

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Is it healthy for a marriage if your wife has emotional feeling with her ex boyfriend and father of our seven year old boy? The father did not have anything to do with his son for five years until I talked her into connecting them.

They talk all the time about how they used to be and what if kind of conversations. I very intuitive about most things. I have felt this for a while and she said I it was not true. Then two weeks ago she stated that she was feeling an emotional attachment to him. She was upset an so was I. I ask her if she wanted to leave and she was for sure that she loved me and wanted to stay. Howver, since then she has continued to carry-on a other than ex relationship with him. I have simply stated that it was not healthy for our marriage. What should I do. I was the one who supported her in giving him an additional chance with our seven year old. I have like him before she stated her feelings.

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Answer 1 / 2 - Submitted 15 days ago...

maryroseb93

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It is good that you both can talk about this matter. Communication is very importanta. Next time do not discus leaving. Talk about your problems without having "leaving" as an option. If you both love each other and want to make your marriage work, keep communicating and respecting each other.

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Answer 2 / 2 - Submitted 13 days ago...

Jewlya

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This is a very difficult situation to have to go through. No one is going to be able to tell you what to do. You have to decide for yourself what you can handle. It doesn't seem like she is going to stop talking to him. You will know when you have had enough. Have you suggested marriage counseling? Most of the time when people think about prior relationships, something is wrong at home...not that she really wants to go back to him or leave you!

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