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pcfulliv

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Should I be alarmed? Every since my husband and my girlfriend went out to lunch for pass time while I was in surgery, they have been talking on the phone everyday.

My husband who has a history of cheating many times in the pass, have been calling her 6-7 times a day. But he actually reaches her and the talk about 3-4 times a day. This has been going on every day for 2 weeks. My friend did not tell me about their conversations I noticed it when I checked his in and out going calls. And no, they are not planning any special occasion for me. I asked her very nicey about the conversations and she became very angry with me and said I should trust her.

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Answer 1 / 5 - Submitted 27 days ago...

Laotian842

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Hmm, let's see, your husband has a history of cheating in the past and you're still checking his phone. Big red flag. Depending on what you've told your girlfriend, she might not be totally aware of his past behavior, but you are, and you have a natural right to be suspicious. Her intentions might be good but his might not, and with you being temporarily out of commission, he might be growing restless. Do you have a trusted third party who could possibly set up a sting operation for you, you know, send a suggestive text and see if he takes the bait? If that's possible, then you could have a much better idea of what you're dealing with here.

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Answer 2 / 5 - Submitted 26 days ago...

elacua1

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Girlfriend do you really think is nothing going on WAKE THE F UP,then again how long have you guys been married,is it worth the agravasion still after so many times busted , i am a man and once a cheat we will do it again cause we already got away with it so why not do it again he will believe me! so ome of have respect for our mates but some of us i dont know,IS A LOT OF TEMPTATION OUT THERE but we have to stay true to our relashionship.do you got kids,how long ,property,cars ?
analize the situation and your friend is not a friend beware!good luck and take your time analizing

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g8orgrrrl

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Innocent or not, your husband and girlfriend should not do anything that makes you feel uneasy or uncomfortable. Their relationship seems to be growing a little too close for your comfort. Your girlfriend should certainly not have reacted with anger to your very legitimate concern. Please talk to your husband and tell him exactly how you feel. Ask him not to contact her. If he and your girlfriend truly care about you and your feelings they should have no problem ending their friendship for the sake of your peace of mind. You are not asking something that is unreasonable here. If they choose not to respect your wishes, it's up to you whether you want to keep people in your life who do not value your welfare as much as their own selfish wishes. I would hope that they would choose to do what is right for all of you and end their friendship. If they do not, please keep in mind that you are in control of what you allow people to do to you. I hope it works out for the best for you and I hope you are enjoying a complete recovery from your surgery. Blessings!

 
Answer 4 / 5 - Submitted 25 days ago...

pcfulliv

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Yes, My friends know of my husbands pass cheating habits. She and I have been friends for 25 years. Since her husband has died about 2 1/2 years ago she has been sleeping around. I tried repeatively to explain that is was not her that I didn't trust, that it was my husband. He has said many things to me months ago that lead me to believe that he had a crush on my friend. I trried to keep them away from each other because my husband is a known trouble maker. But once I saw her anger and also she began trusting him more that me, I knew that her feeling were involved. My husband and I have 2 boys 13 and 14 years old. I have finally left him on 10/20/2009 after a 16 year relationship and a 13 year marriage. He has cheated on me every year on our marriage. This is the last straw! besides after going on line and checkin his call log, he and my girlfriend are still talking on the phone 3-6 times a aday. This hurts but I must move on!

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Answer 5 / 5 - Submitted 25 days ago...

angelbear

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Yeah she's lying and he's cheating let this sink in and move on. no matter what happens you can only do better with new friends and a better companion

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I love everything about this answer! Thank you!

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