Hmm, let's see, your husband has a history of cheating in the past and you're still checking his phone. Big red flag. Depending on what you've told your girlfriend, she might not be totally aware of his past behavior, but you are, and you have a natural right to be suspicious. Her intentions might be good but his might not, and with you being temporarily out of commission, he might be growing restless. Do you have a trusted third party who could possibly set up a sting operation for you, you know, send a suggestive text and see if he takes the bait? If that's possible, then you could have a much better idea of what you're dealing with here.

