It sounds to me you have already answered your own question. You know what your wife like or dislike. Ask her if she prefers something different. Ask her if she thinks the marriage can be stronger. If she gives you ideas that's great. Continue doing what you are doing. Time, endurance, experiences, raising the kids together, saying and showing each other love, is a way to continue to make the marriage stronger. Make her a calendar with a different saying about how you feel about her, for every month. Rent a movie that came out the year you both were married and have a family movie night. Later you and wife can talk about the year you were married and where you are now. But you are already ahead of the game. Keep showing her that love and special attention.





