My boyfriend and hes ex

Are they just friends? If they are friends, it might not be a bad thing that they are still hanging out. He might have become attached to the kids and still cares for them since he was nearly a father figure in their lives.

but remember, he is WITH YOU not her.

I could be wrong, but I think vasectomys are reversible. not cheap, but reversible.

I agree with MusicBuff! I know its hard not to be jealous of this past relationship, but it only makes you appear insecure which is not an attractive quality.

This is a difficult situation, but agree also with the posts above. Your boyfriend bonded with the kids, not their mother. It's hard not to get jealous, but you should allow him to visit the kids. It shows he's loving and probably a good guy.

Hey, if this bothers you you should talk to him about it...I personaly think that if its an "ex" it should stay that way. However, If you have any plans to have children with this guy in the future, I wonder if he would still feel obligated to her children...? I dont think this question is about the children really, rather than him holding on to something in the past.... I also had an "ex" situation with my husband and that didnt go well for me...All I am trying to say is that you should step back and evaluate the whole relationship and if your happy with everything else then you should just work it out, if not then I would "get out while you can".....

Get out now!!! He is still somewhat attached to her. I mean he got that done for her... would you get a hysterectomy/your tubes tied for a boyfriend, when you weren't even married? I mean think about if it were the other way around, if you were still seeing a guy and his kids, while you had a new boyfriend... sounds fishy huh? There would probably be some feelings still there on your part right? He isn't over her, and he's probably attached to her kids. Hope I could have been some help for you! -Samantha

There is nothing wrong with being friends with an ex. it is possible they realized they weren't going to work as a couple, but can still be friends and maintain a friendship.

or does he not want to stay in touch? maybe he feels like he is still those kid's "dad"?

Leave him.. you wanna have kids right you need your onw choice and it is not fair to be done like that makeing you look dumb while he is visting her and her family thats damn sure not cool good luck gurl

I love him

I guess u are right