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My roomate is nuts when it comes to men... what's her deal?
My roommate has this weird issue with men. She is a really good-looking and charming girl and could have anyone she wants, but she choses "project men" as she calls it. She takes men that are a little awkward, don't know how to dress, the guys you would consider "uncool" I guess.
So she takes these guys and makes them over. Goes on dates with them, takes them shopping and turns them into her ideal guy. Then she just stops calling them and starts on another. The guys are broken hearted and throwing rocks and professing their love outside of our window. What's the deal? What can I tell her?
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There are some issues there for sure. She probably has a belief that guys are something that you fix up, because they can't or don't know how to do it for themselves.
Getting into some sort of relationship coaching or relationship or dating therapy might help her out alot. She will need to change some of her underlaying beliefs to really have a successful relationship with men.
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