Older woman,younger guy

Love is possible, but not likely. This is an adolescent crush which means your young friend has tons of maturing to do. He sees you as an easy mark and suffers emotionally when you're not around because he fears losing his advantage. People don't love each other when they hardly touch or talk. A relationship like that (if you can even call it a "relationship") is nothing more than a "what if?" speculation. Are you so unhappy with yourself that you're buzzed by attention from a much younger man? A relationship has to be based on something and in your case, there is nothing there.

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Sounds like your looney toons! How can you have a relationship with someone and not talk to them? How does he show he loves you? I think you have a fantasy about this guy and he doesn't even know you exist! Give it up and get a real life! Your 40? What you are saying would be like me saying that I am in love with Mick Jagger, and he loves me too because he sings songs to me, and I dream about him at night where he kisses me all over and asks me to marry him! Get real!

Dear Rematch,its nothing like what ur imagining!..Mick Jagger stuff n all..And for ur info,im no looner as i have many admirers and guys who really loves me,proposed marriage too..and guess what,most of them are younger by many years too!..i've been in love too many times,so,i know what i am talking about..just need more views,opinions regarding this issue as i really love this guy and wants to sure his feellings can be true as im older ...it started with attraction,admiring,liking and now more deeper and intense feelings..i mentioned hardly talk but not never talked at all..with the help of a friend,we expressed our feeling by actions and he also came to my place...yes,he showed his love for 5yrs in many ways..hard to explain it all here now..thanx anyway for the efforts u have put...